Overheard an old couple bickering and sharing looks that could melt glaciers, or arguing as two cats in the sack? Love, you see, is like a roller coaster. It spins, pivots, and sways. Communication, for better or worse — or up until the toilet seat makes you crazy — is vital. The secret Connections to romantic love is couples counselling.
“My partner never listens!” The veggie turned vegan pair is split in two. Do you recognize this? We can all be screaming monkeys at times, grasping desperately for the steering-wheel of understanding. One day the car may not start. Another, the flat tire is causing you to drive down the highway. Your roadside help, tow truck and spare tire can all be provided by Therapy.
Picture two individuals, gazing into galaxies. Then, fast forward a couple of years and all those galaxies suddenly feel like blackholes. They transform from socks to terrifying discord monsters. You know when it’s probably time to bring in the reinforcements.
Not all counseling is for partnerships at the end of their life. Like a GPS recalibration, it’s important to do before missing the exit for Happiness Town. You can make old complaints into shared laughter with some guidance and insights. Humor can bring people together in a crazy chaotic world.
Do you feel uncomfortable revealing your true self to a complete stranger, who has a good understanding of what “projection” is? It’s okay to be a little awkward. Imagine it more like relationship yoga. The stretches can be difficult, but the flexibility allows you to move your feelings into a harmonious downward dog.
The Titanic is not unsinkable. The same as any ship, the relationships in your life need regular maintenance. Relationships, like any grand vessel, need maintenance.
In session, we’ll craft a vessel strong enough to weather storms with emotional screwdrivers. A unique blend of daily struggles and psychology is created by combining the two. Each couple learns to navigate the soup of their shared lives, balancing sweetness with tang.
Imagine that you can bring everyday problems into a world where the solutions are more important than the issues. Counselors’ impartiality can help you uncover issues in the dark that were previously hidden. You can learn to embrace awkward silences as well as curious questions. They will help create a deeper relationship.
Couples therapy is not an indication of failure. The couples counseling is like dance lessons. The first few attempts are a precursor to a smooth waltz. You will learn to waltz, and yes you may step on some people’s feet. But don’t worry! It is important to enjoy the journey as well as the destination.
After a heated debate about the best way to wash dishes or after discovering an oddity in your partner, you may find that true friendship in love is possible. The right amount of humor can turn a disagreement into hilarity, particularly when served in love.
Some people may not want to openly discuss the hiccups in their relationships. To bring out those hidden gems, it’s vital that you open the doors. This is all about sharing your battles, including the messy bits and wonderful parts, as well as finding victory side-by-side with your partner.
It’s time to bust the myth that counselling is an indication of a sinking vessel. Two adventurous adventurers, fueled by love, make a brave decision to enrich their precious shared journey. It’s a conundrum of a love that is both beautiful and beastly. But counseling doesn’t control it, rather we learn each day how to move along the path.